Top 70 Sex Positive Influencers in 2026

1. Esther Perel

Bio Psychotherapist x NYT Bestselling Author
Podcast Host #WhereShouldWeBegin
The quality of our relationships determines the quality of our lives. More⬇️ *****@estherperel.com Instagram Handle @estherperelofficial Instagram Followers 2.5M Follower Growth (3mo) +3% Type Mega Gender Female Get Email Contact Request 345 Sex Positive Instagram Influencers with email contacts in a spreadsheet or csv file. Email us at [email protected] Copy emailEmail us

2. Vanessa Marin

Bio Intimacy used to be fun. We'll get you back to craving each other!
Therapist+husband duo of 18 yrs
Mel, Armchair, Oprah, 100,000s helped
Start here⬇️ *****@vmtherapy.com Instagram Handle @vanessaandxander Instagram Followers 1.3M Follower Growth (3mo) +7% Type Mega Get Email Contact

3. Todd Baratz

Bio Better relationships. Better sex. Less BS.
• Licensed Therapist & Certified S*x Therapist
• Practice: @theshiftgrp
• Personal: @toddsbaratz *****@toddsbaratz.com Instagram Handle @yourdiagnonsense Instagram Followers 589.9K Follower Growth (3mo) +5% Type Macro Gender Male Get Email Contact

4. Dr. Kelly Casperson

Bio Board-certified urologist + sex educator
Helping women own their hormones, health & sexuality
📖 2 bestselling books
🎙️ “You Are Not Broken” Podcast *****@kellycaspersonmd.com Instagram Handle @kellycaspersonmd Instagram Followers 553.4K Type Macro Gender Female Get Email Contact

5. Casey W. Tanner

Bio Queer Therapist + Author
Founder of @theexpansivegroup
Get therapy or coaching at the link below 👇🏼
Watch my new show Third Wheel now! <3 *****@theexpansivegroup.com Instagram Handle @queersextherapy Instagram Followers 355.5K Follower Growth (3mo) +2% Type Macro Gender Female Get Email Contact

6. Zoë Ligon

Bio D!ldo Duchess 🥴
Author of Carnal Knowledge: S€x Education You Didn't Get In School
Founder @shopspectrumboutique❣️
Benefactress of @effedupfilmheads *****@spectrumboutique.com Instagram Handle @thongria Instagram Followers 258.4K Type Macro Gender Female Get Email Contact

7. Dr. Tara

Bio Less shame, more pleasure!
Professor | Host | Author
TV Expert @celebsgodating @90dayfiance
Columnist @womenshealthuk
Luvbites Podcast Host *****@luvbites.co Instagram Handle @luvbites.co Instagram Followers 247.6K Follower Growth (3mo) +11% Type Macro Gender Female Get Email Contact

8. Chantelle Otten

Bio 🌹Award winning Aussie S3xologist @aissmclinic
📍Living in NYC 🇺🇸
📖Author ‘The S3x Ed You Never Had’
💌 *****@chantelleotten.com
💬 Booking link 👇 Instagram Handle @chantelle_otten_sexologist Instagram Followers 194.3K Type Macro Gender Female Get Email Contact

9. Karley Sciortino

Bio Hi! I’m a writer and host 💕
Click the link for my s-x & relationships Substack, or to generally creep 😏 Instagram Handle @karleyslutever Instagram Followers 193K Follower Growth (3mo) +1% Type Macro Gender Female Get Email Contact

10. Dan Savage

Bio Savage Love & Savage Lovecast. A “deviant of the highest order.” Sex and relationship advice at savage.love *****@savagelove.net Instagram Handle @dansavage Instagram Followers 188.3K Type Macro Gender Male Get Email Contact

11. Jessica Sampson

Bio Clinical Sexologist + Relationship Coach
Educator • Speaker • Mentor
Book A Private Session👇 *****@gmail.com Instagram Handle @theintimacymasters Instagram Followers 185.5K Type Macro Gender Female Get Email Contact

12. Oloni Baby

Bio Author of “The Big O”
Pop Culture, Sex & Dating Expert
@laidbarepodcast host 💕
heyoloni(@)gmail.com 💌
@lace7lingerie *****@gmail.com Instagram Handle @oloni Instagram Followers 181.2K Follower Growth (3mo) -1% Type Macro Gender Female Get Email Contact

13. Juliet Allen

Bio SEXOLOGIST FOR MODERN WOMEN 🌹
Your guide to sensuality, confidence & erotic aliveness.
WORK WITH ME INSIDE SEXLIFE™ ↓
@sexlifewithjuliet *****@juliet-allen.com Instagram Handle @juliet_allen Instagram Followers 163.1K Follower Growth (3mo) +6% Type Macro Gender Female Get Email Contact

14. Sonalee Rashatwar

Bio 🌈 queer as in 🆓🇵🇸
🗣 “☀️-nali” like “Denali”
🛋️ decolonial trauma therapist
🧁 fat futurist📍philly
🧘🏽 @radicaltherapycenter Instagram Handle @thefatsextherapist Instagram Followers 149.4K Follower Growth (3mo) +1% Type Macro Gender Female Get Email Contact

15. Dr. Laurie Mintz

Bio Award Winning Author 📚| Professor 👩🏻‍🏫
Forbes 50 Over 50 🎖️
Self-Help Books Research Show Work👇🏻 *****@drlauriemintz.com Instagram Handle @drlauriemintz Instagram Followers 126.2K Follower Growth (3mo) +6% Type Macro Gender Female Get Email Contact

16. Ev’Yan Whitney

Bio ~chronically offline~
find & work with me here ↓ *****@evyanwhitney.com Instagram Handle @evyan.whitney Instagram Followers 109.8K Follower Growth (3mo) -1% Type Macro Gender Female Get Email Contact

17. Heather Irobunda

Bio ✨Board Certified OB/GYN | Repro & Sex Health ✨ all views are mine ✨
✍️ Bylines: @shape @instylemagazine⁣
📍NYC
👩🏾‍🎓 UPenn, EINSTEIN⁣
💪🏾 Army Vet⁣ *****@irobundamd.com Instagram Handle @drheatherirobundamd Instagram Followers 96.8K Type Micro Gender Female Get Email Contact

18. Ruby Rare

Bio Sx educator + writer
Intimacy Expert for @feeldco
I ❤️ all things spicy/weird/historical/queer
Ladyf!ster zine out now 👇🏼 Instagram Handle @rubyrare Instagram Followers 92.7K Type Micro Gender Female Get Email Contact

19. Kate Balestrieri

Bio PACT | CSAT-S
Founder: @themodernintimacy
Author 📚: What Happened to My Sex Life
🎙️ Get Naked with Dr. Kate
@alomoves Instructor *****@modernintimacy.com Instagram Handle @drkatebalestrieri Instagram Followers 91.1K Follower Growth (3mo) -2% Type Micro Gender Female Get Email Contact

20. Neha Bhat

Bio No More Shame 🌈
Join a Somatic Arts Retreat ⬇️
🎓Licensed Sexual Trauma Therapist
✨Director @sacredresilience_collective
Bestseller @unashamed_thebook *****@gmail.com Instagram Handle @indiansextherapist Instagram Followers 73.8K Follower Growth (3mo) +2% Type Micro Gender Female Get Email Contact

21. Dr. Lee Phillips

Bio Actor. Comedian. Writer. Queer Sex Therapist✨
📍NYC | Love Boldly, Live Fully 🌈
Dog Dad 🐶🐶
@jasonlivesny 👬
@stellaadler 🎭 *****@rcourihaycpr.com Instagram Handle @drleephillips Instagram Followers 64.1K Follower Growth (3mo) +36% Type Micro Gender Female Get Email Contact

22. Jaiya

Bio Join our Community and Unleash Your Pleasure Potential with our Blueprint Framework. Pleasure is your Birthright 💕 *****@theblueprintbreakthrough.com Instagram Handle @missjaiya Instagram Followers 55.3K Follower Growth (3mo) +3% Type Micro Gender Female Get Email Contact

23. Emily L. Depasse

Bio 🌻Educator on love, loss + everything in between
💖STIs don’t define your dating story
⚡️Turning shame into power since 2015
📝 Substack✨Millennial Memes *****@emilydepasse.com Instagram Handle @sexelducation Instagram Followers 51.3K Follower Growth (3mo) -1% Type Micro Gender Female Get Email Contact

24. Gigi Engle

Bio Certified S-x Therapist, Award-Winning Author & Educator
📍London ✈️ Chicago
📚Kink Curious
Rep: @lovermanagement *****@missgigiengle.com Instagram Handle @gigiengle Instagram Followers 36.4K Type Micro Gender Female Get Email Contact

25. Zachary Zane

Bio 📖Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto📖
💙Bi Babes Book Club @Allstora💜
😈S&R Expert at @grindr😈
👇🏼Subscribe to My Substack👇🏼 *****@foliolit.com Instagram Handle @zacharyzane_ Instagram Followers 36.2K Follower Growth (3mo) +3% Type Micro Get Email Contact

26. Michelle Hope

Bio #UnapologeticBlackFeminist ✊🏾 #Sexologist #Author 📚 #ReproActivist✊🏾#allopinionsaremyown 🙋🏽‍♀️
Sr Dir Comms 🗣️ #TruthToPower *****@mhsexpert.com Instagram Handle @mhsexpert Instagram Followers 32.5K Type Micro Gender Female Get Email Contact

27. Luna Matatas

Bio 🌸30+ Webinars Relationships + Body Confidence
🤓I created: #PegThePatriarchy ®
💕1-to-1 Coach *****@lunamatatas.com Instagram Handle @lunamatatas Instagram Followers 32.4K Type Micro Gender Female Get Email Contact

28. Lauren Elise Rogers

Bio Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator
Embodied Intimacy & Relationship Coach
Restoring positive & consensual approaches to sexuality & relationships. *****@lauren-elise.com Instagram Handle @sex_ed_for_you Instagram Followers 27.9K Follower Growth (3mo) +33% Type Micro Gender Female Get Email Contact

29. Dr. Nazanin Moali

Bio 🔐 Unlock Fulfilling Relationships
🎙️ Podcast Host with 6M+ Downloads
👇 FREE ‘Bucket List’ Below👇
📍Los Angeles *****@oasis2care.com Instagram Handle @sexologypodcast Instagram Followers 27.5K Follower Growth (3mo) +6% Type Micro Gender Female Get Email Contact

30. Gabrielle Kassel

Bio 🤍queer seggs educator
🧠 seggs therapist in training
✨journalist @cosmopolitan @menshealthmag @iamwellandgood @teenvogue @gq @selfmagazine *****@gmail.com Instagram Handle @gabriellekassel Instagram Followers 25.6K Type Micro Gender Female Get Email Contact

31. Kate Moyle

Bio Psychos..ual & Relationship Therapist . Author & Host of The S..ual Wellness Sessions Podcast . UK Expert @lelo_official . No therapy enquiries via DM *****@katemoyle.co.uk Instagram Handle @katemoyletherapy Instagram Followers 25.4K Follower Growth (3mo) +5% Type Micro Gender Female Get Email Contact

32. Cyndi Darnell

Bio NYC & 🌎Feelings-Friendships-Intimacy- Relationships-Sex-Attunement-Desire-Menopause-Embodiment-Somatics-Grief
🚫DMs
👀YOUTUBE &
RESOURCES HERE ⬇️ *****@cyndidarnell.com Instagram Handle @cyndi_darnell Instagram Followers 19.5K Type Micro Gender Female Get Email Contact

33. Lori Brotto

Bio Sharing scientific knowledge that empowers women and others to experience optimal sexual health and pleasure. Here to debunk and empower. Instagram Handle @drloribrotto Instagram Followers 16.8K Type Micro Gender Female Get Email Contact

34. Shemeka Thorpe, Ph.D.

Bio Award-winning Sex Researcher
Black Women’s Sexual & Reproductive Health Advocate
Intl Speaker| 📚Lover| #HotGirlScience
CEO @blackfeministpraxis *****@gmail.com Instagram Handle @drshemeka Instagram Followers 14.4K Follower Growth (3mo) +4% Type Micro Gender Female Get Email Contact

35. Isiah McKimmie

Bio Leading Relationship Therapy & Sexology
💙Building connection, intimacy & confidence
Retreats • Therapy • Courses • Training *****@isiah-mckimmie.com Instagram Handle @isiahmckimmie.sexologist Instagram Followers 12.2K Type Micro Gender Female Get Email Contact

36. Jennifer Litner

Bio 💖Overcome Desire Mismatch and Deepen Intimacy
👩🏻‍🏫Sex Doc for your 🍆 + 🐱 + 🧠 + 💕
📍Chicago + Virtual | Sex Therapist
🗓️Book Your Free Intro Call👇 *****@embracesexualwellness.com Instagram Handle @embracesexualwellness Instagram Followers 12.2K Follower Growth (3mo) +34% Type Micro Gender Female embracesexualwellness.com/blog + Follow Get Email Contact

37. Niki Davis-Fainbloom

Bio *****@gmail.com Instagram Handle @missbloomsexeducator Instagram Followers 11.7K Follower Growth (3mo) +7% Type Micro Gender Female Get Email Contact

38. Dr. Lisa Paz

Bio Relationship & Intimacy Expert
Expert on Married at First Sight 💍
LMFT • PhD • Clinical Sexologist
20+ years helping people thrive
Work w/ Dr Lisa ⬇️ *****@drlisapaz.com Instagram Handle @drlisapaz Instagram Followers 8.9K Follower Growth (3mo) +21% Type Nano Gender Female Get Email Contact

39. Jenifer Smith

Bio 📍DMV & Miami
Sex & Relationship Therapist
Published in @essence @allure @theknot @cosmopolitan
All inquiries: *****@gmail.com Instagram Handle @sextherapistjen Instagram Followers 8.8K Type Nano Gender Female Get Email Contact

40. Bianca I. Laureano

Bio ✨Phenomena of Flyness queer fat crip abolitionist AfraBoricua AASECT Certified Sex Educator, Supervisor & Foundress of ANTE UP! PD⚡️ *****@biancalaureano.com Instagram Handle @latinegrasexologist Instagram Followers 8.1K Follower Growth (3mo) +1% Type Nano Gender Female Get Email Contact

41. Tammy Nelson

Bio ▪️Sex & Relationship Expert helping couples reignite passion
▪️Author of “Getting The Sex You Want” & “The New Monogamy”
▪️Host of @thetroublewithsex *****@tammynelson.org Instagram Handle @doctor_tammynelson Instagram Followers 6.9K Follower Growth (3mo) +5% Type Nano Gender Female Get Email Contact

42. Rachel Zar

Bio 🍑 AASECT-certified sex therapist & supervisor
🤓Licensed marriage and family therapist
🍆Sex educator & writer *****@gmail.com Instagram Handle @rachelzartherapy Instagram Followers 1.8K Follower Growth (3mo) +4% Type Nano Gender Female Get Email Contact

43. Natasha Camille

Bio Trauma-focused relationship, sex, & attachment-based therapy for BIPoC & LGBTQ+ communities 💕
Founded by @nattymillz
☁️ Your soft place to land ⤵️ *****@wildestdreamstherapy.com Instagram Handle @wildestdreamstherapy Instagram Followers 1.3K Type Nano Gender Female Get Email Contact

44. Dr. Melissa Donahue

Bio 💙Sexual Health & Wellness Tips For Individuals & Couples
💙AASECT Certified Sex Therapist & Supervisor
💄Follow for more relationship tips & guidance *****@md-counseling.com Instagram Handle @mdcounseling Instagram Followers 1.2K Type Nano Gender Female Get Email Contact

45. Daisy

Bio 🌚♟⏳
| Feminist | Body & Sex-positiv
Let’s talk about mental health 🔅 Instagram Handle @daaaisy_ Instagram Followers 974 Follower Growth (3mo) -3% Type Nano Gender Female Get Email Contact

46. Dr. Shannon Chavez

Bio *****@drshannonchavez.com Instagram Handle @drshannonchavez Type Nano Gender Female Get Email Contact

47. Dr. Lexx Brown-James

Bio *****@lexxsexdoc.com Instagram Handle @lexxsexdoc Type Nano Gender Female Get Email Contact

48. Shan Boodram

Bio AASECT Certified Sex+relationship educator that wants everyone to become their own expert. @masterclass instructor, @arya.fyi CIO, @bumble S/R expert *****@loversbyshan.com Instagram Handle @shanboodram Instagram Followers 657.2K Type Macro Gender Female Get Email Contact

49. Emily Morse

Bio 💋make sex fun again (without the shame)
📚2x bestselling author
🎙️ Listen to new episodes of the Sex With Emily podcast *****@sexwithemily.com Instagram Handle @sexwithemily Instagram Followers 618.2K Follower Growth (3mo) -1% Type Macro Gender Female sexwithemily.com/listen + Follow Get Email Contact

50. Ericka Hart

Bio Sex Educator || NYC/NJ || Author of Nasty Work out now! Link 👇🏾
💌: *****@ihartericka.com Instagram Handle @ihartericka Instagram Followers 456.8K Type Macro Gender Female Get Email Contact

51. Melissa Pintor Carnagey

Bio 𝗦𝗲𝘅 𝗘𝗱 𝗦𝘁𝗮𝗿𝘁𝘀 𝗮𝘁 𝗛𝗼𝗺𝗲
⭐️Creator of Growing Into You!™ Puberty Ed for Families
📗author of “Sex Positive Talks to Have With Kids” & “Growing into You!” *****@sexpositivefamilies.com Instagram Handle @sexpositive_families Instagram Followers 285.4K Follower Growth (3mo) -1% Type Macro Gender Female sexpositivefamilies.com + Follow Get Email Contact

52. Emily Nagoski

Bio I teach people to live with confidence & joy in their bodies. My new book COME TOGETHER is available in paperback. *****@gmail.com Instagram Handle @enagoski Instagram Followers 129.7K Follower Growth (3mo) +1% Type Macro Gender Female Get Email Contact

53. Zhana Vrangalova

Bio Sx & Relationships Doctor. NYU Prof. New paradigm for customized love, ethical nonmonogamy & hotter monogamy. LoveSmarter™=Live Happier. *****@drzhana.com Instagram Handle @drzhana Instagram Followers 82.4K Type Micro Gender Female Get Email Contact

54. Kristin B. Hodson

Bio Sex Therapist (AASECT)
Guiding you to feel safe, curious & confident about sexual hlth
Expert insight + girl-next-door energy Founder @thehealinggroup *****@kbhconnect.com Instagram Handle @kristinbhodson Instagram Followers 57.9K Follower Growth (3mo) -1% Type Micro Gender Female Get Email Contact

55. Cam Fraser

Bio Sexologist | Coach
Educator at @inyourskin.co
Gubbi Gubbi country *****@cam-fraser.com Instagram Handle @thecamfraser Instagram Followers 38.9K Type Micro Gender Male podcasters.spotify.com/pod/s.. + Follow Get Email Contact

56. Emily Jamea

Bio 🥇USA Today Best-Selling Author ANATOMY OF DESIRE | 🏆Award-Winning Therapist | 🎤Keynote Speaker | 🔴 TEDx *****@revivetherapy.com Instagram Handle @dremilyjamea Instagram Followers 38.4K Type Micro Gender Female Get Email Contact

57. Taylor Johnson

Bio ❤️‍🔥 Helping men become grounded, masterful lovers & leaders.
🔱 2026 Men's Retreat — SOLD OUT
🎙️ The Sexual Upgrade Podcast
👇 Free trainings *****@taylorjohnson.life Instagram Handle @taylorclarkjohnson Instagram Followers 37.9K Follower Growth (3mo) -2% Type Micro Gender Male Get Email Contact

58. Shadeen Francis

Bio relationship therapist
cultural strategist
Everyone wants to know how to f#@%, let me remind you how to feel. *****@shadeenfrancis.com Instagram Handle @shadeenfrancis Instagram Followers 35.2K Follower Growth (3mo) -1% Type Micro Gender Female Get Email Contact

59. Justin J Lehmiller

Bio Kinsey Institute Senior Research Fellow and host of the Sex and Psychology Podcast. Author of the book Tell Me What You Want. *****@gmail.com Instagram Handle @justinjlehmiller Instagram Followers 34.1K Follower Growth (3mo) +5% Type Micro Gender Male Get Email Contact

60. Michelle Hy

Bio PDX. Asian. Bi. #Polyam
♾️ Intersectional non-monogamy
💻 Peer support sessions
♥️ Everything is political *****@gmail.com Instagram Handle @polyamorouswhileasian Instagram Followers 29.9K Follower Growth (3mo) +1% Type Micro Gender Female Get Email Contact

61. Cy Smash

Bio 31 🌶️ TOY CRITIC ✨ CERVIX SORCERESS 🫦 MAKE VANILLA A SPICE AGAIN 🌸 Read 450+ toy reviews on my blog 🦁 Cà chớn; cà uồm; tùm lum 💛🍒💛🍒💛🍒💛 *****@gmail.com Instagram Handle @supersmashcache Instagram Followers 15K Type Micro Gender Female Get Email Contact

62. Tessy Vanderhaeghe

Bio 🔖 Éducatrice sexualité 𝚌𝚎𝚛𝚝𝚒𝚏𝚒é𝚎 🇨🇦
🌈 Ouvrir des conversations positives & inclusives 0-18ans
🌟 Formation pour parents & pour les pros *****@yestess.ca Instagram Handle @yestess.familles Instagram Followers 11.3K Follower Growth (3mo) +6% Type Micro Gender Female Get Email Contact

63. Domina Franco

Bio S3x Educator, coach, writer and consultant. NYC/Melbourne. Disabled badass. Featured on @cnnbrasil Entre Mundos! *****@dominafranco.com Instagram Handle @domina_franco Instagram Followers 10.2K Follower Growth (3mo) -1% Type Micro Gender Female Get Email Contact

64. Yael R. Rosenstock Gonzalez

Bio 🏳️‍🌈 Polyam NYC 🇵🇷 ✡ 🚫DMs
❤ Want to feel seen, worthy, sexy, comfortable in your skin
❤ Click ⤵️ for freebies, coaching, & articles! *****@gmail.com Instagram Handle @yaelthesexgeek Instagram Followers 9.3K Type Nano Gender Female Get Email Contact

65. Pamela Udoka

Bio SEX THERAPIST/ MARRIAGE & RELATIONSHIP EXPERT/PUBLIC SPEAKER
Helped over 3,000 private & corporate clients to transform their sexual relationships Instagram Handle @sexpertdoctor Instagram Followers 7.1K Type Nano Gender Female Get Email Contact

66. Paola Andrea Rodriguez

Bio 📋 Individual and Couples Therapy
💜 Education
🎥 Host on my YouTube Channel
Watch my last episode 👇 *****@gmail.com Instagram Handle @sexxionswithpaola Instagram Followers 2.3K Type Nano Gender Female Get Email Contact